Secrets of My Diary: #30. ~Silence whispers~

Its been said a lot of times. Silence is a weapon.
Some use it to destroy, disintegrate, defame, vilify, incarnate people and add any other qualifier to contemplate this fact. In simple words, there are a very few who use it to safeguard their modesty.
The truth is not ought to be termed as a fact indeed.
Facts vary; truths don’t.

Well! My silence is my integrity. I use it to let people know that they did something wrong without having to speak a single word into disgust. I use it to get relieved of the stress that unanimously arouses because of someone else’s proceedings. It does affect you. What people say about you and to you, has to affect you. After all you’re a human being. Ain’t you?

My silence doesn’t always mean “Yes” or “No”.
Sometimes it means, I’m tired of explaining to people who don’t even care to understand.
People call it attitude.
Yes I have attitude because nine of every ten people I meet don’t deserve my kindness.
And I can’t always put a smile on my face and walk around like a moron letting every other person bang upon me.
I try and look stern not to let myself down because I know what’s in my heart is purely connective and I’m not doing anything to impress anyone.

That’s the kind of person I am. But, that’s attitude and its not a disability. The only disability in life is – a bad Attitude.
I don’t want everybody to like me because I know not everyone is going to like me.
Someone who could understand the reason behind one’s happenings without letting one know.
That’s the best part of one’s life.

And my life is not about just one person and can never be.
It’s about two who I know are always with me.



18 thoughts on “Secrets of My Diary: #30. ~Silence whispers~

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  1. I know the feeling. Trust me. It’s a relief to know as writers we can connect to more people and know that there is still sanity out there.
    I haven’t had the chance to read the past week’s posts you did and now I shall catch up haha ๐Ÿ˜›

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  2. “People call it attitude.” And “weak people revenge” …I want to know some facts ’bout those lines.
    Why does this happen? What I’m concerned it? Seriously..Will allow me to remove my dilemma!!! Answer my questions here, here my whole maze solving to solve.

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    1. Nice comment. I wonder if you are offended by this post.
      Anyway. I’ll answer you.
      “People call it attitude.”
      This one is so common. When you aree not answering to someone because he/she did something wrong.They eventually end up calling it attitude and you, one rude. Right?

      “Weak people revenge”
      Well! I took it as such in passive voice. In other words, taking revenge is weak people’s job I mean. They need to commit an action to let themselves feel normal.
      Haven’t you met such a human?

      It happens because we all are humans. And our self-control are gradually different.
      Well! The ‘concerned’ thing is a bit ambiguous. It may or may not concern you.
      It may, because this world is such a tiny place to live in without interacting with human being.
      It may not, because our comprehensions are way beyond the skies. So, it depends when to be concerned about it and when not to,
      Hope my answers helped you remove your dilemma.
      PS: I love answering to your comment. It was so challenging.

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      1. Nah Nah.. I’m not offended your post.
        Post your questions to my mind after reading the volcano broke and I could not live without asking. First, I want to say thank you to put your precious time to answer my questions.
        My question to answer is a very head-consuming task. And you have no means of answering questions. And why I’ve come here.
        The more time you have to answer my question several times and can work as many were planted.
        Anyways. “People call it attitude” –
        I am facing the fact of childhood. And I love this fact. ๐Ÿ˜›

        And “weak people revenge” -I felt that I am concerned but it has now become clear, I am not of it.
        I’m really thankful for your goodness. :))))

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        1. Thanka a lot for this kind gesture…and yeah they were head consuming…
          Okay Ma’am…I am ready to answer your questions every time.
          Happy now? ๐Ÿ˜‰
          Yeah…that ‘attitude’ fact is since years and yet, more to come.
          Thank You so much.You are good too. โ˜บโ˜บโ˜บ

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  3. wow.. True words.. People judge us even by what they think we are!! Silence they feel is something which is a bad attitude!! I really don’t understand the reason behind all these!? Any how I love you wo rks! ๐Ÿ˜€ keep writing! ๐Ÿ˜€

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  4. Since not everyone knows that this is what goes on in your head, may be you should get print outs of this blog and hand ’em over to whoever you meet, so that they don’t stereotype you. But then. People don’t matter. You’re who you are.
    Sarcasm aside, this is actually well written. I could see my thoughts reflecting through your words. (Half of them haha. When people judge you as some attitude-wali-larki just because you don’t explain everything you say, just because you say “chhorro” too much). I like this. Really. Keep up the good work.

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